Teaching kids to be thankful proves to be one of the most difficult tasks to endure as a parent. In a world consumed by materialism as a source of happiness, it’s no wonder kids are growing up ungrateful for the things they have and instead longing for the things they don’t have. It begins with us as role models, practicing gratitude and gratefulness!

PLEASE AND THANK YOU

Please and thank you goes a long way. Be sure to use these words when talking to your children and encourage them to do the same. They will imitate the adults around them. Being polite and having manners is the first step to a thankful child.

ATTITUDE IS A CHOICE

Attitude is a choice and it is up to them whether they are thinking positively or
negatively. Teach your children to make a conscience choice to have a better attitude. When
something isn’t going their way, have them name something positive that they are grateful for to
help turn their outlook around. A potential “I can’t” meltdown can be turned into “can you please help me” instead. These are important lessons that will greatly benefit children as they get older.

HANDWRITTEN THANK YOU CARDS

Handwritten thank you cards are a great way to have your child reflect on a gift that was given to them and connect to that person in a meaningful way. Thought and effort went into that gift but so often we take these things for granted. Teach your children thankfulness by showing gratitude through a hand written note and those gifts will hold more significance.

HAVE CHILDREN HELP WITH AGE APPROPRIATE CHORES

to appreciate what it takes to run a household. Laundry and dishes don’t clean themselves and most children have no idea the time and effort it takes to complete these tasks on a daily basis. Make a chart and have children complete one chore each day. Praise and thank them on a job well done. For school aged children, take this a step further by having them write thank you notes for school janitors and lunch room attendants. These are jobs that get done unnoticed. Children will take more pride in their home and school.

MAKE A THANKFUL JAR

Create a thankful jar and have the kids write down one thing they are grateful for each week. At the end of the month, sit down as a family and take turns reading the notes aloud. Life gets busy and it’s easy to get swept up and forget why we go through the motions each day. Teach your kids to be thankful for all things big and small and life becomes more meaningful.

HELP OTHERS WITHOUT BEING ASKED

Part of teaching our children to be thankful, is helping them to see when other people are in need. Teach by example by lending a hand to a neighbor or friend. Donate canned goods or used clothing and explain to them why you are giving. A giving heart teaches children to see what other people don’t have and to appreciate what they do have.

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Don’t get me wrong. Gifts are a blessing to bestow on others, which is important. After all, the holiday season is about acknowledging God’s gifts and goodness to us and showing our gratitude to Him for all He has done in His infinite grace and wisdom. But, children especially need to learn that presents are exactly that – gifts given in love – not anything they deserve, should expect, or are supposed to get.

I want my children to accept gifts graciously with a heart full of gratitude and a realization of the sacrifice and love with which they are given. A lot of this will come as they grow in Christ, but as a parent, I want to do everything I can to encourage them to have thankful hearts in all circumstances. So I’ve compiled a list of some of the best kids’ activities I could find to foster a spirit of gratitude this season and throughout the year.

I believe that demonstrating gratitude as parents, teaching good manners, not spoiling our children, and limiting technology go a long way in laying the foundation for a thankful spirit. Also, involving our kids in family chores, allowing them to feel helpful, and volunteering to help others as a family discourage an attitude of entitlement and give children a sense of contribution and responsibility.

It is important to create an awareness in our homes that there is so much more to be thankful for than just stuff, especially when it comes to God and all He has done for us!

One way to become more thankful and generous is to practice! Each Christmas season, our children choose a few items that are still in good condition to donate to other children who do not have much and would otherwise not receive anything, and these items cannot simply be toys that they have never played with.

I have noticed that our kids become more aware and grateful for what they have and more compassionate toward those less fortunate as a result. Looking for more ideas that can be used throughout the year? Here’s some great ideas!

Activities That Encourage Kids To Be Thankful

Thankful Jar

A Thankful Jar is a great idea to keep in the house year-round! I want to do this with my family starting this month and read the little papers of thanks together once a month as part of a family Bible time. This post includes cute free printables to use with and keep next to your jar, too!

Bucket of Blessings

Here is an alternative to a Thankful Jar that really allows kids to visualize the accumulation of blessings as the can gets heavier and heavier with each rock that is added. Love it! My kids would have fun for hours just playing with the rocks, too!

Thankful Tree

This activity is great for little ones who are hands-on and visual learners as well. You can help them write what they are thankful for on the leaves and keep something like this out all the time as a visual reminder to remain thankful and positive.

Gratitude for God’s Character and Attributes

This is a phenomenal post about how much we have to be thankful for even in spite of earthly challenges and hardships. It includes a list of God’s attributes and things that He does for us, as well as Scripture to read or memorize for each item on the list. A craft idea is included that you can use as a reminder of the awesome character traits of God in your own home or give to someone else as a gift.

ABC’s of Thanksgiving

This post combines homeschooling and character training into one great activity for kids, which is always a plus! Free printables are included for both preschool and elementary age children to draw or write something that they are thankful for starting with each letter of the alphabet.

Blessings Board

I definitely want to make one of these for our home! It is a beautiful reminder to count your blessings and can be rewritten each week, month, etc. If you hang it in your kitchen and dining area, then it can also be a reminder of things to thank God for during mealtime prayers. HERE is an 8 x 10 free printable option as well that you can simply place in a frame and use with a dry erase marker.

Thankfulness in a Box

This activity really gets kids thinking! They have to come up with reasons to be thankful for things that they may have never before thought of being thankful for. This could easily be combined with a lesson on missions and third world countries where people do not have as many material possessions and conveniences and often go without things they need.

Gratitude Journal for Moms (free printable) and Thanksgiving Heart Lessons for Children

I love the idea of keeping a Gratitude Journal. You can write what you are thankful for each day in a notebook before bed. How can you go to bed complaining and frustrated after doing that?! It is a hands-on way for both you and your children to give your frustrations to God, take notice of all that you can be thankful for in spite of any problems or concerns, and go to bed with a peaceful mind knowing that tomorrow is a fresh new day that the Lord has made.

Motherhood on a Dime offers a free printable 30 Day Gratitude Journal for moms, as well as the option to buy their Thanksgiving Heart lessons with printables, Scripture, and activities for encouraging thankfulness in children.

Free Printable Gratitude Journal (for younger kids)

If your kids are not old enough yet to write in a notebook, the free printable Gratitude Journal for kids from Living Well Spending Less might be a good option for you because it offers prompts and spaces for drawing.

My pastor delivered a sermon on gratitude last Sunday, and its basic yet important message involved the intimate connection that grace, gratitude, and generosity share with each other. When we receive and acknowledge the grace of God in our lives, our gratitude overflows into generosity and love for others.

He explained how having a grateful heart helps to protect us from being polluted by the world or having a negative attitude and outlook on life. It also makes us a better example of Christ and better equips us to show His love to others.

This really stuck with me, and I want to make my home a place of generous hospitality where my children are continually aware of God’s grace in our lives and my family is always humbly thanking our Lord for His goodness to us no matter what our current circumstances are. In order to be thankful, we must take the time to linger and dwell on our blessings!

So, what are you thankful for today? Feel free to comment below with any thoughts you have or other ideas for teaching your children to be thankful.

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Be Thankful Buckets

I love this idea for each child to have their own giving thanks bucket!

The Grateful Turkey

Having a visual reminder of the things that you are grateful for is very effective and this little guy is so cute!

An Attitude of Gratitude

Keeping children thankful even after the holiday is the real challenge. Here are some great tips!

Thank You Cards

Make these simple cards with your kids and show someone that you don’t normally say thank you to, your gratitude.

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Random Acts of Kindness

Help your children create an attitude of gratitude in others with simple acts of kindness.

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