I for one, already have someone on retainer to go clean my house when i go to the hospital. Why in the world be embarrassed? I strive for cleanliness and organization on a daily basis, but I have a husband, three labs (inside and out, so they bring in dirt and shed), a cat, and a baby on the way. Plus I work. One person cannot possibly do it all and have it up to par on a daily basis. I don’t like a dirty house, and will take help any time to keep it clean, so come on to my house, sisters!

I see your point, Amber. To me, “surprise the new parents by coming over to clean the house while they are in the hospital” sounds like probably a bad idea, but it could be done tactfully: “I’m sure there’s some chore at home that you won’t feel like doing when you get there–would you like me to run some laundry or something?” If nothing else, there may be a little mess created at the last minute before leaving for the hospital. Or if you’re talking to parents after they’re home, you can ask what you could do to help.

Nice article, Jeannine! I agree, this type of gift is priceless!

I was the exact same way! After three children, I am embarrassed if someone sees all the dirt up close and personal, but I am so thankful. When my parents come to visit, they just do things without me asking, in fact, sometimes I try to get them to stop. It is really nice when they refuse to listen :).